Even if you look like Christian Gee, Vince Taylor or Schwarzenegger at his peak, you’re not going to be all women’s dream, if you have no idea, how to behave with them and what they are fond of. Women like you being nice with them, attentive to them, they want you to make court to them. But would it be a reliable tip to do all this to be also liked by them? Maybe, you already know, that being too nice with women won’t make you be a success with them. Sounds like a paradox? No, because there should be enough attention, and no more than enough. Using the push and pull principle provides it.
What Is the Push and Pull Technique
The principle of Push and Pull technique is to control her emotions during a conversation. Be nice with her (“pull”), then right after it demonstrate indifference (“push” her away). Here’s an example. Establish a physical contact, touch her, show your interest, then move away a bit, push her off. Do the same in conversation. The most important thing is to find the balance between showing her you don’t care and you like her. Such behavior can make you more attractive to her.
Most women like to be persuaded. This means, when you suggest something, even if she would want to do this or to go there, she would not say “yes” immediately, she would wait until you try to persuade her. Don’t do this, if she does so, just say “no problem” and don’t insist. This would make her confused and understand, that you are not to play with.
Here’s is another example. In case, when she’s angling for a compliment by saying something negative about herself and expecting you say “no, you’re absolutely not fat, you’re so slim and beautiful”, don’t pay her compliments at all. Say something like “No problem, I like curvaceous women”. But be careful with negative (for her) statements, always mix “good” and “bad” messages. As said, find that balance, don’t try too hard, otherwise she could think, you’re brut and never want to have to do with you anymore.
Tips How to Seduce a Woman Using the Push and Pull Technique
The following tips how to seduce a woman should help you use the push and pull principle successfully.
Be self-confident. Even if you’re very nervous, show her, that you are cool and deadpan.
- Show your interest in her, but not all the time. Behave sometimes, as if you don’t care.
- Don’t be like other men.
- Don’t always give her, what she’s expecting from you.
- Be playful. Tease her.
- Be strong not only with muscles, dominate her in conversation.
- Be a challenge for her. A challenge increases woman’s interest in you.
Seducing Women Is Like Bodybuilding
Don’t try to please her too much. Leave some incompleteness. Never let her be sure about your attitude to her, otherwise you’ll bore her. People don’t appreciate what they have already got. Even children behave so: as soon as a little girl gets the desired toy, she loses interest and wants another one. It can also be compared to bodybuilding – you want to gain more muscle mass, as soon as you have reached a particular result, then, when you’ve done another step, you again want to “grow” further. The same thing can be said about women. Let them always have a goal, that is you, let them strive for something, provide them a challenge. And they will be all yours.
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May 9th, 2008 at 5:19 am
I find th above article unbelievably inaccurate of women. It is guys like the above that make it so hard of rnice guys. I have always been attracted to nice guys and for those guys out there who complain about girls don’t like nice guys. Those are the girls who constantly complain about their loser boyfriends only to continually find themselves in the same situation. I have no tolerance for guys who play games, I have been unfortunate enough to go out with those guys but fortunately no more than a couple of dates.
My boyfriend is the most loving, caring, generous, intelligent and everything else I want in a man. The reason we funciton so well is due to a lack of games in our realtionship and I am the one who has a tedency to get bored very easily. The guys who have bored me in the past are the ones who use the above mentioned techniques as the seldom have any substance to keep my interest on any other level and yes I have moved on.
So… coming from an intelligent and attractive woman who also happens to have a level head, take it from me guys the kind of girsl you are going to with with thes techniques are the ones you will eventually get bored of. And if they are a good catch they will quickly get bored of your games and you will be kicking yourself over the head like so many of my ex boyfriends tell me they are doing.
I am freinds with most of my ex boyfriends and I cannot honestly call anyone of them jerks or pricks, I didn’t pick gus like that. Even though we may have had other compatibility issues I still have respect for all of them.
May 13th, 2008 at 8:16 pm
So you dont have a boyfriend?
May 25th, 2008 at 5:00 am
Actually I do have a boyfriend and we have been going out for about a year. As I wrote above, he is “the most most loving, caring, generous, intelligent and everything else I want in a man.” Apparently all the mind games have left you with limited cognitive capabilities and an inablility to read also. Ha ha.
Do you have a girlfriend? Probabaly not I imagine.
June 27th, 2008 at 1:47 am
I agree -be a nice guy with no games or hidden agenda is the way to go.
While it may be just a one night stand-she will not call back if you are a jerk !
I nevr cheated on my last two wives but could not keep the ladies off me when I was with my first wife.After awhile a man just gives in to temptation no matter what.
June 27th, 2008 at 2:03 am
I agree this article is absolutely NOT how most women would want to be treated. To me this rates right up their with lying. If you cannot be honest with me from the beginning, I am not interested. I would want someone to be their self, not play the cat and mouse game, that routine gets old fast.
July 1st, 2008 at 5:19 am
Great article! I use this technique quite often and it works incredibly well.
There is no deception here, beautiful women enjoy a challenge. Notice how I said beautiful women, not average women with self esteem issues, but beautiful, confident women enjoy a challenge.
They get hit on by tons of “men” created from the same nice guy mold everyday and are not looking for somebody to tell them how beautiful they are. They are looking for a MAN with options. They want a confident, charismatic, and direct man who will not take their shit just because of their looks and is willing to walk.
It matters little to me whether you believe this works or not, belief does not equal fact. The proof is in the pudding my friends! Dig in!
~Carpe Diem~
July 22nd, 2008 at 7:58 pm
This is the most ridiculous article I have ever read. I am in my late 20’s now and I have no time for games. I can play games with the best of them, but if I wanted to play games I would get a Wii, or pull out a deck of cards. I want an honest, respectable man because I am an honest and respectable woman.
The proof is in the pudding but if these kind of games attract a woman to you more than you could probably just buy her anyways. LMAO